Movie Review: “Shrink”

A shrink (Kevin Spacek) for the big stars in Hollywood had a burn-out and a drug problem from his work and his wife’s suicide. A young girl (Shemma) was having issues dealing with her mother’s suicide. By helping her and another client, the shrink was able to help himself and found himself a love of his life. Finally, they all ended up in movies roles: writer, producers and etc. It’s like having a movie within a movie.

There were several other interesting characters to keep the movie interesting: an obsessive-impulsive-disorder talent agent, a self-sacrificing, door-mat, talented, pregnant surrogate secretary, over-the-hill sex-addicted actor (Robbin Williams), a drug-addicted handsome actor on top of his game, and etc.

Kevin Specek was getting really old with baggy eyes and smoking non-stop – not a good model. Good acting, nevertheless.

The moral of the story is that people will do what they do (like suicides or drugs) and they need not have a reason. The people who are impacted need not to seek the reason but instead should try to be happy as much as they can and make the best of it. It’s OK to moan and grieve but don’t destroy your own life. That’s the way!

Movie Review: “Capote”

I was more familiar with Capote’s “Breakfast at Tiffany.” Got to know a little bit about the writer from this movie: his friendly and gregarious personality. Truman Capote put all his soul and energy into investigating the facts for the “In Cold Blood” book about the two murderers of the 4-member Clutter family in Kansas, all for $50 instead of $10,000 they expected to rob them of. Capote somehow got very emotionally involved with one of the killers, Perry Smith, who had the similar upbringing and abandonment issues as Capote’s. At the end, Capote had to wrestle with his conflicting emotion of wanting them to be executed by hanging so he can finish his book and that of seeing the deaths of his “friends.” Very good acting by all the actors and the extra features of the DVD on Capote’s background and the making of the movie gave the audience more perspectives of the movie. This got me curious about the “In Cold Blood” book, I’ll definitely read it. I also discovered that his best friend, Nelle Harper Lee, is the author of “To Kill the Mockingbird.”

Truman Capote died of alcoholism at the age of 59 in 1984.

Book Review: “I Shouldn’t Even Be Doing This: And Other Things That Strike Me as Funny” by Bob Newhart

Bob Newhart is one of my favorite comedians. I watched him on both Newhart shows as a psychologist and as inn owner. This audiobook, narrated by Bob himself, allowed him to stammer as part of the comedy elements. I don’t know how the book reads but it’s probably hard to stammer in the book. From the book, I got to know how he grew up as the only boy in the relatively poor family in Chicago. He chose the accounting professional out of college, thus the title “I shouldn’t even be doing this.” Amazing. Sometimes the best thing that could happen to a person is to lose his job. Doing standby comedy isn’t easy. And based on his description was difficult to a pro like him as well. I guess he stammered through them and gained popularity through his albums, Button Down Mind. At one time, he was selling more albums than Frank Sinatra as he quipped.

I particularly like his “routines”: driving instructor, submarine commander, Lincoln’s Gettysburg address, and others. The last finale episode of Newhart show of the wake-up-from-dream scenes with Emily in bed was genius and was suggested by his real wife, Gini.

Overall, it was a good audiobook, though at times it was a little to listen to his stammer too long. I wonder he speaks like that all the time or just for the comedy effect.

More details about Bob Newhart click here. His official site is here.

Book Review: “Predictable Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions” by Dan Ariely

The is a fun book to read and listen to. I enjoyed and learned a few things. Specifically, the chapter on relativity opened my eyes to how people make decisions. The topic on social norm vs. market norm helped me understand how open-source movement worked and their delicate balance. The experiments on how much we’re willing to keep options open sounded silly but realistic. The chapter on the expectations and placebo effect confirmed my belief on many things I encountered in my life like spiritual healing, religious miracle and even use of vitamins. Summary of the book is as follows:

The truth about relativity: We are always comparing one to another (like Economist’ print & web pricing) and we tend to focus on comparing things that are easily comparable (introduction of a decoy) – and avoid comparing things that cannot be compared easily. Comparison causes envies like CEOs’ salaries. To counter this, you can either reduce the circle of comparison or enlarge it. The more we have, the more we want – break the circle of relativity.

The fallacy of supply and demand: Use of anchoring to bring out arbitrary coherence; we tend to stick to the initial price (Social Security number experiment). Anchors we we encountered along the way and were swayed by remain with us long after the initial decision itself. Herding and self herding (habitual, how Starbucks succeeded). We should pay particular attention to the first decision we make in what is going to be a long stream of decisions.

The cost of zero cost: Zero is an emotional hot button – a source of irrational excitement. Most transactions have an upside and a downside, but when something is free, we forget the downside because we humans are intrinsically afraid of loss.

The cost of social norms: vs. Market norms. People tend to be more self-reliant and less willing to help other when operating in the market norms. Market norms takes over social norms if not careful. Money is the most expensive way to motivate people.

The influence of arousal. People turn into monsters (Hyde from Dr. Jekyll) and less cautious when in an arousal state. We systematically under-predict the degree to which arousal completely negates our superego, the way emotions can take control of our behavior as in sexual arousal, driving. We need to explore the two sides of ourselves: the cold state and hot state.

The problem of procrastination and self control: Why we can’t make ourselves do what we want to do.
“Almost everyone has problems with procrastination, those who recognized and admit their weakness are a better position to utilize available tools for precommitments.” Bundling our medical tests, car services so that people remember to do that is far smarter. Author suggests the use of self-control credit card.

The high price of ownership (material or ideas): why we overvalue what we have.
Three reasons: 1. We’re attached to what we have (especially those we have put work into) and we haven’t got yet (eBay or trial ownership) and, 2. we focus on what we may lose (30-day money-back guarantee) rather than what we may gain. 3. we assume other people will see the transaction from the same perspective we have.

Keeping doors open: why options distract us from our main objective.
We have an irrational compulsion to keep doors (opportunities, relationships, jobs, and etc.) open. Choosing two similar options are very difficult (two stacks of hays to a donkey, US Congress) and may be easier to just toss a coin and do away with the opportunity costs.

The effect of expectations: Why the mind gets what it expects
If you tell people up front that something might be distasteful, the odds are good that they will end up agreeing with you because of the expectation. When the coffee ambiance looked upscale the coffee tasted upscale as well. Coke was liked more with the brand was known – the associations were more powerful, allowing the part of the brain that represents these associations to enhance activity in the brain’s pleasure center. We should acknowledge that we are all biased, trapped in our own perspective – may require a neutral third party.

The power of price: Why a 50-cent aspirin can do what a penny aspirin can’t
Two mechanisms shape the expectations that make placebos work: belief – our confidence or faith on the drop, the procedure, or the caregiver, conditioning – the body builds up expectancy after repeated experiences and releases various chemicals to prepare us for the future. Price can change the experience. When it comes to medicines, you get what you pay for.

The context of our character: why we are dishonest and what we can do about it
We care about honesty and we want to be honest. But our internal honesty monitor is active only when we contemplate big transgressions. The only defense we have against this is a rational cost-benefits analysis. Remind people of the 10 Commandments or other vows or honor codes helps to promote honesty. Much of the dishonesty is one step removed from cash. When given a chance, people cheat.

Beer and free lunches: what is behavioral economics, and where are the free lunches?
When people order out loud in sequence (in a restaurant), they choose differently (more varieties) from when they order in private, to convey uniqueness. People are sometimes willing to sacrifice the pleasure they get from a particular consumption experience in order to project a certain image to others.

Book Review: “Broke: What Every American Business Must Do to Restore Our Financial Stability and Protect Our Future” by John Mumford

Picked this audiobook up from the library. There are lots of good well-told bible stories: Joseph and Jeremiah. The author may have been a good preacher or deacon of the sort. I never heard the Bible stories told so well.

The author tries to awake the readers’ sense of urgency by asking this question: “Do we love ourselves more than our children?” That’s a powerful question. Unfortunately, most of the people who caused all these crises in our nation are people who love themselves and probably their children than others’ children. His appeal to the business leaders may be the right call to actions as the politicians are not going to do anything about them.

A couple of good ideas that were presented: 1. 1~2 years of mandatory public services by our young adults. This is an excellent idea to inject a sense of civil service to our society and can help re-program our children away the “poisons.” I like it. But is it political feasible? I doubt it. 2. more use of nuclear power generation – one of the better ways to get us out of the petroleum dependency. 3. Bite the bullet to pay off the debts with a national transaction tax of 2%.

The author covers all aspects of the issues facing this nation: debts, business renewal, social security, medicare, inflation, international relationship, technology leadership or loss, terrorism, environments, energy and etc. Obviously, the author has immersed himself in many of the issues and courageously propose solutions for them. Some of the solutions make sense to me but some don’t. But at least he is presenting solutions.

The author at the end projects two possible scenarios like the movie “It’s a wonderful world”: one without a turn-around when America goes into to a permanent decay, the other with the national debts got under control and a future reborn for the country. I think America will probably end up somewhere between the two extreme cases – a slow decay. I hope not to see within my life time the end of the greatest democracy experiment in human history.