Book Review: “Real Wealth Without Risk: Escape the Artificial Wealth Trap in 48 Hours Or Less” by J.J. Childers

I picked up this book thinking it might help me. But I found it mostly a collection of miscellaneous tips of financial disciplines. All of them make sense but nothing really earthshaking. The “Without Risk” title attracted me but I don’t think the author really delivers that, at least in the normal sense of “risk free.” A few interesting things: the author were taught affirmation at his young age by his Dad. It doesn’t hurt to start this as early as possible. The author is a lawyer and he was modest enough to seek the advises from his wealthy clients on how they became rich. The author’s father is a real estate developer and he was taught the investment benefits of the real estate investing. The book is full of individual strategies that may serve as a good reference source. A summary of the book is as follows:

Escape from the artificial wealth trap with the ESCAPE plan:
E. S. C. A. P. E.:
Envision wealth for your life:
There are 15 strategies here for you to envision your wealth. The more important ones include 1. determine what you want and create a dreams list, 2. use positive affirmation, 3. eliminate negative thoughts, 4. create a “values” list. 5. create a visions board to visualize daily, 6. write out your goals and pledge statements, 7. eliminate destructive values, 8. spend the majority of the time on those goals and objectives that are most important to you, 9. being each day and end each evening with a visualization of your goals.

Strategize: Planning your work and then working your plan
There are 18 strategies suggested by the author: 1. determine your current fiscal condition and where you stand financially, 2. create a good record management system, 3. give yourself a complete fiscal fitness examination, 4. prepare a family financial statement, 5. identify and evaluate your expenditures, 6. prioritize your expenses and rank them by necessity, 6. determine which expense can be reduced (or eliminated) immediately, 7. identify negative money mindset obstacles (like deprivation of food diet), 8. set goals for eliminating any negative spending habits, 9. establish wealth accomplishment objectives for yourself, 10. create a cost estimate for accomplishing your dreams and objectives (order from the left side instead of the right side of the menu), 11. measure the distance for the trip to your real wealth destination, 12. set reasonable timetable for arriving at your destination. 13. spend at least one hour per day brainstorming your voyage to Real Wealth, 14. plan your work, and then work your plan.

Create:
Winning the credit game and dealing with debt.
Lots of tips on handling debts

Creating immediate income:
Understand the differences between making money and building wealth and then focus on doing BOTH. Create more income streams and by making good choices on where and how you send your money.

Increasing cash flow with money-saving strategies:
Some good advises: Don’t establish a budget; follow an “expense plan” instead. Don’t buy wants on credit. Avoid adopting the “arrogance of poverty mindset.” (status-minded). Stop financing vacations that you can’t afford. Tie in vacations with business trips.

Saving money by managing insurance:
Purchase life insurance only to replace the lost income or services of a provider. Buy only term life insurance and devote the rest of your financial plan to prosperous living. Never buy universal or variable life insurance as an investment vehicle.

Making your life less taxing.

Making money while you sleep on the internet and eBay:
Affiliate yourself with other companies to make money as the middleman if you have not yet developed a products or services of your own.

Create income with real estate:
4 kinds of profit in real estate: 1. appreciation, 2. principal reduction, 3. cash flow, 4. tax deductions.

Accumulate
Decide on a particular investment area and develop a fundamental understanding of that area. (Put all good eggs in one basket and then watch that basket.) Work to increase your “wealth sustainability level.” (ability to sustain the level of wealth that a person enjoys over an extended period of time.) Adopt an attitude of wealth inevitability.

Investor mindset means having a comfort level with, and emotional detachment from, the process the investing. 1. Have a solid understanding of the stock market. 2. Set your objectives effectively. 3. Invest safely. 4. Make a commitment to working your plan for investing and to not let emotions get in the way. Save 20% of your annual salary as “attitude” money. Do not fall for Roth IRA conversion.

Preserve
Create an estate plan. Form a legal entity for operating your business. Change the nature of your income from earned to unearned. Protect your wealth by protecting your health. Hire your children “tax-free.” Zero out your corporation at the end of the year to avoid double taxation (pay salary instead of dividends). Use S-corporation to avoid self-employment taxes. Establish a revocable living trust to provide for your beneficiaries, avoid probate, and reduce or eliminate the estate tax.

Execute
“The secret to happiness is freedom. And the secret to freedom is courage.” Make small changes that can yield big payoffs.

Theatrical Review: “寶島一村”

Three military families were thrown together in a village in Taiwan when they retreated from mainland China as part of Chiang Kai Shek’s “temporary” military plan to regroup before embarking on liberating the entire mainland China. However, the plan was interrupted when time ran out and Chiang died in 1975, 26 years since he arrived at Taiwan.

The three families eventually settled and took root in Taiwan. One Beijing family has 4 kids and settled in #99 of the village, one gay officer settled in #98 with a make-believe wife who husband’s plane was shut down over mainland and disappeared and rumored to had defected. And one San-dong family with a local wife settled in between the two walls with an electricity tower in their home. The stories started when they were assigned their houses by the government in the village, and ended two generations later when the village was being torn down to make roads. In between, their lives were tangled and dependent on one another. The kids, resenting being treated as a second-class citizens, rebelled against the parents and their traditional values. Some pursued great careers. Some took the easy ways out and some stayed behind.

The lightly-set show took the audience through the emotional roller coasters of laughter (when one of the friends found that he was never understood due to his unique spoken dialect), disappointments (two lovers were separated because the man was not good enough for her family), and sadness (when they visited their families back in mainland).

The final act spoke loudly of the tragedy of this generation as the ghost of the patriarch showed his youngest son of his written blessing hidden in the house just before the houses and the village were going to be torn down, “May you live in a world free of wars and family separations!” He never lived long enough to return to his home town. And as he reflected on his life, he saw that life is nothing short of of kids’ house game (???, 家家酒) and people were thrown together to act out their parts. It sounded like the desperation of a disappointed man. Also, the separated lovers finally met at the Blackjack table in Las Vegas as the women, who rejected him decades before for being not good enough, dealt the cards to a now successful man with an ABC boy. He was still very much in love with her as he traveled many places to look for her.

As a Taiwan-native boy growing up with the 2nd generation of these military families, I never realized and truly empathized their struggle against poverty, loneliness and the pain of being thrown in a foreign place, not being able to see their family members for so long. This was indeed a tragedy that no one should be asked to endure. And yet, the new political party consists of mainly native Taiwanese still continued to play the native-vs.-outsider card to pit one against another to further divide the country. Unfortunately, it’s the political game politicians play to grab power.

I enjoyed this show very much and learned a few things about the outside-province people who I grew up with. In a way, Taiwan is a melting pot of all Chinese people with all the goodness that each one of us brought from his/her home towns from all corners of mainland. This is what makes it unique and lovely in its own way. Like the nickname, 寶島, for Taiwan, it’s a precious island indeed.

Book Review: “Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex” by Mary Roach

Lots of research into human sexuality including orgasm, penile enlargement/implants, hormone effects, clitoris stimulation, and etc. Most of them are overly detailed and researched. Author’s comments in the footnotes are often full of tongue-and-cheek to draw quick laughs. It’s good to be not too serious about this topic. I’m not sure I’ve gotten much except the following: human sexuality is a lot more complicated than our primate relatives, the science behind impotence and the functions of erectile penis, orgasm and the G-spot, orgasms for paraplegic seems gives us clues how it’s connected to the brain, sexuality experiments in Islamic countries could be a risky undertaking and even in a free country like USA it could be problematic, and etc.

Book Review: “The Adventures of Johnny Bunko: The Last Career Guide You’ll Ever Need” by Daniel Pink

Daniel Pink came up with this comic version of career help book. It’s rather interesting to read a self-help comic book. Instead of a big genie from rubbing an oil lamp, the hot Asian girl can do just as well by the cracking noise of breaking away the bamboo chopsticks. I like the fact that I can finish the book in an hour or so and it was entertaining as Johnny kept running into difficulties at work. And the Dianna genie, kept coming out to give a lesson and have it written on the whiteboard.

The key teachings are as follows:

1. There is no plan. No need to plan too much ahead. It’s not flexible enough for today’s ever changing world.
2. Think strengths, not weaknesses. Don’t try to work on improving your weaknesses but instead work on making your strengths stronger.
3. It’s not about you. Try to serve others instead of serving yourselves.
4. Persistence trumps talent. Persistence will get you ahead more than talents can. In a way, this sort of contradicting with #1.
5. Make excellent mistakes: Learn from your mistakes and make the best of them.
6. Leave an imprint: Seek meaning for your life.

Book Review: “Herd: How to Change Mass Behavior by Harnessing Our True Nature” by Mark Earls

I thought this book was going to teach me how to control the mass behavior to my liking. I was a little disappointed from the book that there are just a few things you can control: your beliefs, behavior, and influencing the words of mouth out there. In a way, this trend works to the favor of social networking like Facebook and Tweeters, who really have the channels to the words of mouth. No wonder Facebook is worth $50B as of today.

A summary of the books is as follows:

‘I’ is an illusion. We’re more ‘us’ than ‘I’ – our memory and decision-making have tricked us.

The 7 principles of Herd Marketing:
1. Interaction.
a. All mass behavior is the result of interacting individuals within a specific context. We do what we do largely because of other people. b. Organizations are built on the interactions of individuals. c. Understand the rules of interaction, which generate the complexity of the behavior that you are studying.

2. Influence
Peer-to-peer, consumer-to-consumer influences are more important than “persuasion.”

3. Us-talk
WoM (Word of mouth) Facts: 1. WoM is more important than other purchase influences. 2. WoM is getting more important over time. 3. WoM operates in both B2B and B2C. 4. WoM is a global – not just a US – phenomenon.

4. Just Believe
Be interesting and hold beliefs that engage us. 1. Be who you are. 2. What do you believe in? Find it and live it. 3. Act like you mean it (and don’t act like you don’t …).

5. (Re-)light the fire.
Make it personal to live your beliefs. Otherwise cynicism, within or without, will unpick your vestal virgin impersonation.

6. Co-creativity
Use the herd’s desire to co-create – it’s part and parcel of our human herd nature. It challenges our assumption of control; the warm, comfortable felling that we’re in control.

7. Letting go
Human herd behavior is complex and systemic, the illusion of control is both largely unhelpful and misleading. You have to get used to being out of control. The best we can hope to do is cast a pebble on the water. Choose the pebble wisely. Choose how to throw it but once the stone leaves your hand we have to let go.

DVD Review “Planet Earth” Disc 1

This is the kind of video that you wish had a blu-ray and HD TV to watch on. The videos are so soothing and relaxing to watch. I fell as sleep a couple of times while watching.

This first disc has the animals on from the north pole to the south pole, like penguins, polar bears, birds, panda, piranha fish and many others. The mountains, waters are simply breathtaking. It also includes the inner working of the people who brought us the videos and the difficulties they encountered like shooting the videos on how the wild dogs hunt, and the habitat of a couple of snow leopards, and shooting the video on piranha.

After watching the videos, I gained better appreciation for the magics of this planet. This planet earth somehow evolved into the most beautiful planet that humans with the biggest brain on this planet can comprehend. It has given us (all the animals) so much and we’re all here to share, not to monopolize and abuse. As a guardian of this “Eden,” we need to be protective of it.

Did this video just turned me into a naturist? Perhaps, it has worked its magic.

Movie Review “Life as a House”

Selected this movie to watch because Dr. Ariely mentioned it in his “Upside of Irrationality.” Thanks to the Netflix streaming and the instant gratification, I was able to watch it instantly. The movie is about a man (Kevin Kline) got fired from his house modeling job after 20 years. In the heat of anger, he smashed all the models in the firm before walking out. But he collapsed on the way out and discovered that he had cancer and only months to live. He decided to rebuild the the old house on the cliff overseeing the Pacific ocean, and invited or forced his son to do it with him. Through the process, he won the love of his ex-wife who left her current husband to join him rebuilding the house. But most of all, he won the heart of his teenager son, who was about to turned bad. In the end, he died from his illness but his son got the house completed and fulfilled his wishes.

This is a heartwarming story about a man who was never really happy until he stared death in front of him and decided it’s his last chance to be happy. And he wanted to share it with his son and passed on “something” to his son. It’s amazing that we often resort to do the “right” thing just when our time is about to run out. This movie motivates not to do that. Our lives are really short and we never really know when we’re supposed to check out. It’s the best policy to do the right thing all the time.

Kevin Kline was fantastic in this movie. The intricate funny business among the neighbors in the cul-de-sac reminds me of an old soap opera. Overall it’s a good movie, worth watching for those who haven’t got their priority straight yet in their lives.