Book Review: “You’re broke because You Want to Be: How to Stop Getting By and Start Getting Ahead” by Larry Winget

I didn’t think I needed to read this book. But I enjoy Larry Winget’s straight talk so I listened to it.

Winget got to the purpose of money. Ultimately, one should consider being rich is about having money to donate to charity work, in addition to helping yourself. This may be a good motivator for people who loath money due to the often-mentioned “greed” associated with rich people. Getting rid of this “loathing” money concept is probably very important. Knowing “why” you want to get ahead is more important than knowing “how” which is what this book is all about.

This book offers a few tips:
Know where you are now. List out all of your expenses against your income. If the income is less than the expenses, then you have some painful tasks to do – reduce your expenses or increase your income. Winget emphasizes the importance of feeling the “pain” and emotion why you’re where you are – let in Jack Baur to inflict the pain. No pain, no action.

List all you can cut and do without and do it and go cold turkey. Doing it gradually simple doesn’t work for most people.

Some tips like putting all the changes into a piggy back and cash out from time to time to pay down debts is an interesting concept. It seems painless.

This book offers very simple message, nothing less and nothing more from Winget. He encourages people to read up and learn as much as possible. Can’t get ahead if you don’t improve yourself constantly.

Book Review: “Click and Mortar” by David S. Pottruck and Terry Pearce

This book may have been an eye opener at the on-set of the Internet revolution but lots of things being predicted here have happened – like leveraging the Internet to serve the customers better. For Charles Schwab, they have learned to leverage the Internet to continue their low-cost model of serving their customers. This may have been a difficult transition from telephone service at that time but has become lucid recently. It’s hard to imagine they could have done anything different.

The rest of the book about establishing Schwab’s mission statement may have been unusual at that time, it’s now being practiced readily. In order for a company to scale to a big company, these infrastructures need to be put in place in order to synchronize all areas of the company.

Overall, I didn’t get all that much from this book except for the importance of serving customers well and be persistent even if you have to cannibalize your own business.

Book Review: “Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference” by Malcolm Gladwell

What does it take to create a tipping point?
The three rules of epidemic:
1) The law of the few:
a)Connectors – Paul Revere is a connector – that’s how he was effective in bringing awareness to the Boston people the imminent British invasion. The other less famous guy William Dawes wasn’t effective. Paul Revere possess “social gifts.” We’re all connected by “six degrees of separation.” But all degrees are the same. The connectors know a lot people, and the critical kinds of people they know, masterful of the “weak ties” (acquaintances).
b) Mavens, who accumulates knowledge, “who solves his own problems – his own emotional needs – by solving other people’s problem. They are not persuaders; they are teachers. Mavens start the Hush Puppies phenomenon. The 800 number on a product is often used as the maven trap.
c) Salesmen, e.g. Tom Gau in Torrance. It could be very subtle cues like head nodding (Peter Jenninings’s smile when Ronald Reagan is mentioned), and other “micro-movements” like dancing, and “seducing” – building a level of trust and rapport.

2) The stickiness factor
Stickiness of message: Sesame Street vs. Blue’s Clues (repetition, long narrative, getting pre-schooler’s attention). Here, Gladwell went into the beginning of the Sesame Street and the contrast with Blue’s Clues. Interesting and anecdotal but not very informative.

3) The power of context.
Author started with Bernhard Goetz’s story and how he became a symbol of the a particular, dark moment in New York. By practicing the “Broken Window Theory” and cleaning up the graffiti on trains and train stations – the context, New York City Transit, headed by David Gunn, started a transformation that reduces the crime rate drastically in the 80’s. “Behavior is a function of social context.” The mock prison experiment was revealing that “specific situations are so powerful that they can overwhelm our inherent predispositions.” We tend to make the mistake of “overestimating the importance of fundamental character traits and underestimating the importance of the situation and context.” The “Good Samaritan experiment” on the students of a seminary is an interesting example of the power of context. Ya-ya sisterhood started with many small groups (book clubs) then evolve into a social phenomenon. The magic number of 150 – a maximum number (“social channel capacity”) an organization or group can reach without losing its effectiveness. This can be attributed to the evolution, the larger the group size and larger the neocortex is.

The case studies: Airwalk shoes, crossing the chasm (technology) – diffusion model, the suicide epidemic on the Micronesia islands, teenager smoking, and etc.

I’ve listened to this audio book twice and briefly browsed the book. I’ve learned quote a few things about how to create an epidemic. This is great for marketing people who want to create a social phenomenon; they need to pay attention to the connectors, mavens, and salesmen and make their message sticky and create a context for their products and services. Very intriguing.

Wikipedia’s summary

Enabling Hibernate on Vista Windows 64-bit

My dad’s new computer with Windows Vista 64-bit for some reasons does not have the “hibernate” mode on the menu. After some Google search, I found that you may need to turn it on manually. Well, this wasn’t easy. I had to type “cmd” and run the cmd first. But you don’t want to type the command on that cmd window because it’s not the “administrator” cmd.

Click on the start menu, the “cmd” should now show up as the “recent” application. Right click “cmd” on the recent application, and then select “Run as Administrator”. When the cmd window pops up, it has the “Administrator Command” window. Now type on this window “powercfg -h on”. This enables the hibernation mode. However, the “hibernate” item still doesn’t show up on the list of the command.

I discovered that you need to go to the Control Panel and select “Hibernate” when Power Button is pushed and click “Apply.” Now click on the “I/O” on the menu of the Start menu, the windows show go to “hibernate.” From here forward, the hibernate mode will show up as one of the options, in addition to Sleep, Re-start and etc.

Definitely, this is a bug on Windows Vista 64-bit. Who would know how to do this except by accident?

Moview Review: “Law & Order – Special Victim Unit – 1st Season, 1999”

22 Memorable Episodes:

Payback:
This is the first episode of the first season. A cab driver got stabbed many times and then had his genital cut off – a very interesting opener for a series than ran for 10 years so far. As it turned out, his past war crime against women caught up with him. One of the victim killed herself in front of her restaurant and the other confessed to revenge on what he had done to her in Serbia. Benson allowed her own feelings to get in the way of justice, resulting in the killer to get off on Manslaughter 2. Sometimes, it’s hard to uphold the justice when a prior justice has not been served. You can’t help to take the side of the killer.

A Single Life:
A beautiful woman fell to her death from her top floor apartment. Her psychiatrist, a national anchorman were all sexually involved with her and were suspects. As it turned out, she committed to suicide because of the incest by her own father. Her sister finally turned on her father after being controlled or shut up by his trust funds. This was a sad story. The moral of the story is that don’t do immoral things, especially against the innocent, helpless victim like children. People will eventually tell; through their own action – words or death, the truths will come out.

… Or Just Look Like One:
A badly injured, sexually assaulted woman was dumped outside the ER room. Jasmine was a young 16-year-old starting her young modeling career. This story went into the dark side of the modeling industry – all the sex and drugs. By killing the two young models, the photographer and his washed-out model fiance tried to prevent the model from disclosing his polaroid photo collection. This episode shows the ugliness of the model industry, including the parent, talent recruiter, photographers, and the models themselves.

Hysteria:
A suspected prostitute was murdered (suffocated with plastic around her head) with his body dumped in a construction site. The murder led the police to solve a 3-decade-long murder case, perpetrated by a vice cop. But this murder was not his own doing. The killer turned out to be her own boyfriend. The motive of this case was kind of weak but the twists and turns kept the audience captivated. The victim dressed provocatively for a night club and was mistaken to be a hooker. Sometime you just don’t know what you are going to be caught dead with. It’s best to dress appropriately.

Wanderlust:
A well traveled (wanderer) writer man was found dead, naked and his mouth taped up. The usual suspects are the landlord lady, who threw herself on him, the jealous boyfriend of the landlord. He was a sexual predator, who was about to get framed for this crime. But the killer turned out to be the teenager daughter, who on a rage, after being disappointed by the victim’s refusal to take her out of her home and travel around the world. It goes to tell that a young woman, when driven to rage, can kill. Warning to all potential sexual predators – what goes around comes around.

Sophomore Jinx:
A woman was found dead, by a blunt object, on the garden of the campus. The black basketball player boyfriend was suspected. Another basketball palyer was also suspected. It turned out the girl fell on the staircase and hit herself on the wall. But the young lecturer moved her body to the dark garden and had sex to the dead body. It’s a weird plot, but this happened before. Some people, very minority, are turned on by dead bodies. Hard to imagine.

Uncivilized:
Sex offenders are often being blacklisted by the community – the modern scarlet letter. The classic conflict between victims’ right and the right of the released offenders. In this case, the offender got a bum rap and was accused wrongly but was gunned down by the victim’s father. The true killers were the accusers who imitated the style of killing by reading about the offender’s act on internet. Perhaps, it’s not a good idea to provide too much information to the public. You never know how people are going to use the information. I went ahead and check the sex offenders database near my neighborhood. Thank goodness, there is none within a mile of my home but I was surprised to see how many offenders there really are.

Stalked:
It’s all about “control.” A real estate broker murdered an ADA (Assistant District Attorney) by stalking on his victim. He did the same to Benson and his partner. To be able to pin down on this guy. Olivia Benson took on an enormous risk and may have result in being a victim herself. This criminal is too clever to admit that he shot his victim thus not subjected to death sentence, paving the way for a sequel later on. Being stalked is probably more scary than being victimized on bright day light because of the constant fear. I sympathize with the victims. I can also see that ultimate control a stalker can impart on a victim.

Stocks and Bondage:
A woman died of an S & M that went haywire. It involved the high-flying investment banker and his teenage buddy, an auditor of the investors. The conversion of money to diamonds for ease of transport was an interesting angle for money laundering. It’s hard to imagine an illiquid asset like diamond can be used as a high-value, light asset. I suppose it can be. This episode is kind of weak, not very believable.

Closure:
A woman was raped at gun point in the middle of the night. All the evidences have been washed away by the command of the raper. When the same thing happened, the raper was caught but couldn’t be prosecuted because the victim did not disclose the rape act. The first victim thought she could identify the raper but couldn’t at the line up. This is the first Law and Order episode I saw that did not have a closure, though the title was “closure.” I guess there would never be a closure for a rape victim no matter what happens afterward.

Bad Blood:
A gay man, the son of a famous conservative politician, was beaten to death during/after a gay party, that was attended and video taped by a gay police officer. The Gunther brothers were suspected due to the seminal evidence. In order to understand what happened, the police needs the recorded tape, which later pointed to the “good” younger brother. The older “bad” brother was playing with the mind of the younger brother and sent him to the rage that killed the victim. This episode goes into the debate between what makes a criminal – nature vs. nurture. Benson’s mother’s rape case was brought to light and Officer Benson was able to see the father who raped her mother. She put that behind her when she decided not to acknowledge him after all after seeing his frail appearance through the window.

Russian Love Poem:
A man died with his full bondage custom stuffed with a banana that he’s alergic to. He turned out to be a very horny guy with relationship with men and especially Russian woman. More Russian women died as the story unfolded. The killer was the jealous boyfriend of the mistress of the man. Lots of Russian. The story plot was confusing and didn’t make a lot of sense.

Disrobed:
A judged was shot iin the head and groin in his car. A flight attendant turned out to the killer of the judge who exchanges favor for sex. When the judge didn’t want to continue the relationship with the flight attendant, who was trying to keep her ex-husband from getting out of jail, she shot him. She didn’t get prosecuted because of the fear of exposing the improper behavior of the judge. The last minute drama had the flight attendant nearly killed by her newly paroled husband. The man was shot by Benson. In this episode, Detective Cassidy was written out of the show. I didn’t think he was a good fit for the show anyway, besides it’s ackward after he slept with Benson a few episodes ago.

Limitations:
Three women were raped and the rapist not found for nearly five years, when the statue of limitation would run its course and deemed the cases not prosecutable. After lots of investigation as the time nearly ran out, one of the women admited that she had met the rapist in her church gathering and she had forgiven him and refused to disclose his name. Later, the rapist was found to be the messenger who rode his green bikes and delivered packages. At the end, he was caught but he was then handicapped, the reason why he had not raped again. Nice twist at the end.

Entitled:
3 people have been shot in front of their girl friends. The 1st lady, of a rich family, was accused of killing the man, who raper her in college. The killer was later caught and the woman vindicated. But the bruise mark showed that the other 2 killing may been staged to vindicate the first woman. It’s amazing having lots of money can have someone knocked off without going to jail.

The Third Guy:
An old lady was tied up on her bed, raped and killed. She was robbed by some teenagers but was she raped by the gang. The rapist was supposed to be young and inadequate – seems to fit the profile. As it turned out, the rapist was the slightly retarded delivery man. He thought she wanted him just like the porno movie he had in his possession. The woman had two heart attacks during the entire incident before her death. Interesting that starting this episode, a new psychiatrist was added to analyze the sex crime killer. Of course, he was right on expecting the rapist to be sexually inadequate.

Misleader
A woman died of strangling in a hotel room. She’s related to a conservative preacher’s son. She was strangled to death by her husband, who suspected her having an affair. Indeed, she was pregnant with the husband’s father’s baby.

Chat Room
A young girl claimed she was raped but turned out to be a way to get away from having sex with her boyfriend. The story turned into the hunt for pedophile on the internet.

Contact
Women are being raped on the subway without being noticed. This was quite unbelievable. A man was caught jumping on a woman. But he doesn’t fit the profile. The man was finally caught by the unusual parking ticket. The line-up botched up by tainting of the witness. Turns out a woman was impregnated by the rapist. This story was a real stretch.

Remorse
An renowned reporter was raped by two men. One of the men were caught immediately after he was turned in by his one-night-stand partner. In pursuit of the other rapist, a bomber blew apart the reporter and the 2nd rapist. The bomber turned out to be an obsessed fan who tinkered with a small remote-control soup-can bomb. The psychological state of the bomber is interesting because his favorite anchor person was tainted after going public with her rape. The “father-figure” strategy of the captain got the 2nd rapist to talk.

Nocturne
Some naked child pictures got developed in a one-hour photo shop. They are being picked up by a piano teacher when the detectives were investigating. The piano teachers were fondling the students when the films were confiscated. A young prodigy testified against his long time teacher and had to answer to the same charge against him. What makes a pedophile a pedophile? It appears the abused may eventually turn into an abuser. It’s sad to see that the underprivileged kids may choose the love of a pedophile over the love of their parents, if at all.

Slaves
A street vendor reported a Romanian girl asked him to help finding her aunt and reported a sex crime. The aunt was later found to be dead and dumped along the road. Later, Elena was found but she was safe and sound. The drug that killer her aunt was traced to the wife of the couple that hired Elena as a nanny. A crime of sex and torture was discovered against the husband. Elena was used as a stunt slave for the wife. She was found locked up in a cage under the bed. A sick, sadistic man tried to enslave his women. How did the women put up with that was simply amazing. Along this episode, all of the detected went through a psychological evaluation. Someone will be kicked out of the show in the next season. Who will that be? Stay tuned for Season 2.

Overall, this was a wonderful season; it’s got everything about sex crime. How could anyone work with the heinous crime committed against another human being? I guess that’s what keeps people glued to the show. These 22 episodes took me over 18 hours to finish!

Movie Review: “Cashback” – A British Romantic Comedy Movie

British comedy and humors are often hard to comprehend for Americans. But this one has some heart-warming effects that appeal to all people. Of course, it has lots of nudity like a good British film would have. In addition, it has the techiness of time stoppage, Kung Fu humor, and the single-mindedness of testosterone-charged men, and your typical Dilbert humor with a n overbearing boss and dumb coworkers.

Ben, the central character, couldn’t sleep after being dumped by his girl friend. He decided to take advantage of the extra 8 hours and went to work in a supermarket. His ability to stop time allowed him to spend lots of time sketching the time-frozen, beautiful girls – customers and the co-worker, Sharon, who he had a crush for. Wouldn’t it be nice if you can put your surrounding environment in pause and catch up with whatever you want to do?

The movie flashed back to Ben’s childhood on how he relationship to girls/women grew. Of course, he had a childhood friend who acted out the rudeness toward women that often ended up with drinks being poured over his face.

Things happened around the supermarket provided a few laughs: the soccer game where the boss ended up with a stiff neck and bloody nose, the Kung Fu kid co-worker who applied Kung Fu to his cleaning chores, and co-workers who gazed at gifted woman customers and played sexually-explicit pranks.

A misunderstanding at the birthday party of his boss caused a rift between Ben and his new girlfriend, who dreamed of traveling and seeing the world. But they made up after Ben became successful with his arts, thanks to the prank played on him by his co-worker.

I like the film technology of freezing the scene where everything is practically at standstill except for the central character who can roam freely – very nicely done; I didn’t see anyone move an inch – must be done by computer graphics. The story line is a bit out there (fantastic) but manages to be believable like a good Santa or Cinderella movie.

Wikipedia review is here.

Movie “Cool Hand Luke” – Paul Newman

I watched this movie on Netflix’s Roku device. This is wonderful way to watch oldies and goodies on TV. The only complaint I have is the lack of caption on the movies. Sometimes, it’s hard to comprehend the speech without the captions.

Luke, the central character in the movie, portrayed by Paul Newman is a renegade young guy, who is glutton for punishments. Luke got drunk and starting cutting off the parking meters. After being imprisoned in a country-side prison with a sadistic warden, Luke kept running away from the prison for at least 3 times. The last time he ran away, he went out with a big bang, shot by the sharp shooter of the prison.

The most impressive plot in this movie is his eating 58 eggs within an hour to win a bet. Playing up to the prison guards is pretty funny too. You just know that he’s going to get hurt but he kept doing it.

Paul Newman’s performance in the movie was outstanding. Without his performance, this movie doesn’t really have sufficient plot to keep people interested, except for the commodarie among the prisoners, which is not realistic given what we know about today’s prisoners. I don’t know if the prisoners nowadays are being treated the same way; it’s what “doing the hard time” is all about.

Paul Newman just died of lung cancer on 9/26/08 at the age of 83. The old blue-eye left us lots of movies including “Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid”, great charities, and Paul Newman food products.

I’ll slowly catch up to his old movies now I have the Roku.

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